a while ago i had a weird set of counselling sessions.
One is angry. for some reason i wasnt able to construe a while ago and up to now, Im still figuring it out. The other is angry-emotional-crying-angry. OMG. I was totally drained a while ago. I really wanted to make them experience all the empathy, understanding and patience i can give away. But things turned out to be very weird. I can really see all the unconscious self defenses when someone hears something unacceptable. 1. Denial 2. displacement.
I was sweating all over a while ago. The right thing to do, I guess, is to make them come back once they’re more receptive and settled, which i was able to do for the 2nd counselling. The first one, immediately decided, so I think i was kind of successful in explaining to him.
Only 2 counsellings , 2 types of defenses, 2 scary reactions……