Personally, I am an approval seeker. Social pleaser.=( Im always affected by what other people think about me. Sometimes its too tiring to be like that coz im always bothered and worried.
Recently, I've been learning how to tell if whats commented is constructive. If it is, then I think about and do something about it, but if its not, I just try to ignore. I started living by the lines "Dont take yourself so seriously. No one else does."